Silke,

I just love to read your ramblings, you always seem to express so much that I am sure the rest of us have thought at one time or another.

It is only natural to feel unsure of things at times, but so long as you stay honest to your feelings and share them, your relationship can only continue to get stronger. As to taking Tojo's advice, you know my view on that one. He has not steered me wrong yet!