Not sure what it is or where it's going

[moptop]

Just wanted to say, to Tojo really, I've spent a lot of time on the submissiveloving site, and I was particularly grateful to Mistress Steel for her article on Submissive Frenzies. Strong resonance for me there. I certainly recognise the state in myself - and it helps me to balance about my expectations around the relationship itself: I would like him to be the one etc. etc., just as anyone seeking love hopes that this new relationship will be, but I'm not counting on it. I just intend us to enjoy it as much as we can while we're together, and so does he, and we are! Also, I think that finding this community right at this moment is allowing me to spread my frenzy around a bit... I'm sorry if that's a bit of bind for all of you! Let's hope it doesn't last too long.

[Tojo]

Please don't be sorry moptop- we're all going through our own stuff, that's what we come here for. To me that's the biggest thing with this place, the freedom to express your own doubts & uncertainties in a pretty darn supportive environment.

Feel free to sit down & say what you want anytime- you're very welcome.

If you have 'personal' stuff to discuss, it's OK to PM a likely candidate.

There's never any guarantees in any relationship, that's for sure- when I married my wife I identified as a sub. She had many a happy time with that- now it doesn't do a thing for me, but luckily the BDSM side of things is/was a very small part of our relationship.


Tojo