One misconception I see here is I'm not asking how I should act, because yeah I'm gonna do what I want to do. Perhaps my wording doesn't make sense. A lot of it does have to do with my mindset I'll admit, but that'll change over time and with more experiance. I have a dom buried within me, it's digging it out which will be a challenge.

I ask for examples because I don't really have the imagination of actions an so forth. Often times I find when I hear about someone a couple might do I say to myself 'People do that!?' then try it out myself. I ask for a dissection of my situation in order to help me learn and improve. I'm not going to do what anyone says to do, but I'll take it to heart and use the knowledge to improve myself. The vagueness doesn't help for nothing, but I'll take what I can get I suppose.