Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
hmm....Maybe not so much insecurity as just plain projection onto my slave. It's more like, I would never put up with being treated the way I treat my slave be, let's say my boss or a girlfriend. More like, "How can she put up with all my bullshit"?

And besides most women wouldn't put up with having a Master........

Having fears of being abandoned by my slave, I only think is human. If we love we can also lose what we love.
As for myself, the act of being kept, collared or owned, is what FUELS the relationship...it was once said (very wisely, I might add) that women give sex to get love, and men give love to obtain sex...MY Master DOES give me what I need. physically, emotionally...and in return he gets whatever he wants, wholly and unconditionally...and also my undying loyalty, as, in MY mind, he's earned it...