In our first ever conversation, my Master told me to think of a name I'd like to be called by him. He said it should be sexual, and that I should think of it myself. Surprisingly, that was one of the hardest things I've ever done, to name myself. I hedged for a very long time and was quite embarrassed and petrified of coming up with my own nickname. What if he didn't like it, what if I did it wrong...

Eventually I came up with "pet" when I'm being good and "slut" for when he means business...although he uses the two interchangably. He also calls me his "good girl", which usually has me smiling for ages afterward. Anytime he addresses me in any of these ways, I feel overwhelmed with happiness. And now I realize that forcing me to choose my own nickname was a real test of my submission, one I had quite a hard time passing.