*peeking in on this discussion and cannot help but chime in on this, especially since I want to learn all I can about everything*

I enjoyed reading this topic and also have a few questions to ask. I have no clue if they fall in line with what is said, but that is what an open discussion is about, right?

If people say that those who switch are confused about their status, does that not make most of us confused, considering as how in reality those who are high powered CEO's or presidents of businesses want to toss it off and show their submissive side? Or how about the lowly janitor or gofer? Would they not want to come home after a long day of work and come online to Dominate any? So why the confusion? After all, I think the ages old saying "you do not know what I been through unless you wall a mile in my shoes" definately applies here.

Again, just a crazy thought from my crazy mind.