Well, as my Owner if fond of saying the best one to train you is your submissive.

Sounds funny right? But It is her you will be dominating after all. Her wants needs and desires you are taking responsibility for right? Her life you will be holding literally in your hands right? What works for one sub doesnt nessesarally work for all, every single submisive is unique.


This doesnt mean you are not the leader it just means you plan on being a good one when you learn how to "Know thy submissive better than thyself".

Experienced or not she will allways be your best guide, learn how to read her responses to a variety of stimuli, sit down with her and discuss it all. Your best inspiration for her training will come from her. I can not say enough times that communication is key. No reason it cant be fun, you can even make it seem like an interogation of sorts. I answer questions best when holding my cheeks open and my face is to the floor. lol

Honestly find out what her expectations are? Then figure out what yours will be, come up with a plan together then stick to it during play especially (the middle of a session is no time to change the rules on her especially with hard limits).

Keep it safe sane and consensual.

Is she also a member of this site and if so why not?

There is a great Tasking society here for doms and subs, as well as a special section called the womb for submissives only that help people grow in thier respected roles.

There is also a section in the tasking society just for people to share "tasks" and scenarios.

As FRH said I too am fond of the punishment fitting the crime. I am also extra fond of not being punished on a whim for new girls in a fashion that makes it a reward. This misconstrues the boundary between play and punnishment in a girls mind. The distinction should allways be very fair and clear.

You could start her where a lot of us do and teach her the basic slave poses and how to transition fluidly from one to the other. Speech training can be done right at the same time.

Here is a link to the thread where I placed the discriptions of the 48 positions my owner likes for me to keep in mind, if you need any inspiration. The positional discriptions start on post 20.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ghlight=kajira

Good luck.