Quote Originally Posted by phantasy_seeker View Post
So, what I think is that the female sub might not have 'biologically orgasmed' - as in, the chemical and biological events following a 'proper orgasm' might not have happened, because scientifically speaking, those can truly only occur with contact to the sexual organ.
I believe you may be mistaken here. It is certainly possible for a woman to release and feel the release of all the same endorphines and hormones through a commanded orgasm as she can through a physically stimulated one. You see, the brain tells the body which endorphines and hormones to release, and for a woman, an orgasm is a very cerebral event. (For MOST women, that is.) So if a dominant, whether male or female is able to get their submissive to orgasm on command simply by way of spoken word, it is because the brain has not only been trained to associate the two together, but it also tells the body to release the same endorphines and hormones. Is it to a lesser extent? That depends on the training, as has been stated here before. One tonal inflection may result in a smaller orgasm while another may result in a full blown, thighs shaking, can't breathe, cathartic release orgasm.