BDSM Vs. Vanilla r/l?

[Asia]

Firstly, welcome back Asia! This is the first thread of yours that I've posted on since your return, and I'm glad that I can uncross everything that I've kept crossed for the past month. Oo ah. That's gonna hurt in the morning.

Right, now to talk about this thread! There have been other BDSM vs Vanilla threads, and maybe this is my inexperience showing, but I could certainly see myself in a wholly vanilla relationship, if I really loved the gal in question. If I did a Tojo and showed my eventual partner a bunch of bondage mags and she crinkled her nose, I could happily see out the rest of my days with only the odd look at this site when she wasn't looking.

As for your boring guy, Asia, I'm sorry he was so dull, but I'm sure he must have been nervous and you may not have got the best from him. It'd be a brave man here who wouldn't be nervous the first time with you!

Now, if you'll just excuse me while I forge my birth certificate to make myself more than a few months older than you...

Q xx

Hey honey - I realised something so obvious after I'd written this all down, that when I first met my man (now my ex), it took him a long time to get into what I was into and I never pushed him or made him do anuything - he was naturally dominant but certain things, he simply would not do - it had completely slipped my mind. And Q *laughs*, he did admit to me that when we first got together, that night, I scared him with my 'ways' - I must learn to be shy *laughs*
Great to see you again honey.
Asia
xxx

[Confessor_Ed]

Asia, I agree with Qmoq who is probably the same age as me and taking those ageing pills. LOL. You said it yourself, you started upside down BD to Vanilla and faithful for 10 years and 6 years, everyone is going for feel boring after all the intimacy and knowledge you've shared with the same two people after all that time! After reading your confession in the 'confession box' I can see a pattern here pet. I'm an hour away and a phone call away. You already feel like a sister to me, ok, maybe my mates' sister
Ed. x

And please could you put your bottom and legs away, and your other woman bits, I can't concentrate! LOL

[Asia]

Ruby honey - you are so damn lovely *hugs*
~kiss~
Asia
xxx