Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[Ozme52]

I've been fantasizing about being tied up and stuff like that for years upon years yet could never find anyone who wanted to do it. I'm a 25/m from the bay area of Cali. How could i change the fact i'm still a bdsm virgin?

You live in what may well be one of the top ten most active communities in the nation.

Check out yahoo and google groups, and fetlife, for local munches, seminars, and parties. (Starting in that order.)

Take your time, but no worries, you can end your bdsm virginity as quickly as you wish.

[bdsmsub69]

i'm new to this type of world but been curious about it a long long long long long time. no one has ever givin me the chance to serve them. i'm lookin for a domme in the bay area. anyone out there to help me out?

[Play Ball(s)]

I was a member of this site last spring before the big server crash and am just now become active again. I needed a little down time so the timing of the crash worked okay. I had a brief online D/s relationship with a domme but she decided the online environment was not suitable for her. Without a domme or someone to talk to about BDSM things I am feeling a little lonely these days.

I regard myself as submissive.

[serviam {PixieStick}]

Hey everyone,

I'm serviam and new to the site. I'm a sub and I would say moderately experienced. A good friend, a submissive female, introduced me to the lifestyle a few years ago.

Since becoming involved I’ve read a lot and had a little actual play experience, online and off. In hindsight, I understand now that being a submissive has always been a part of who I am but of course wasn't able to really understand that or put a name to it until my friend helped me get my mind around it.

There isn’t a vibrant BDSM community where I live and so I have been looking around the web for awhile before finding this site. It seems to be a great place to get acquainted with and to network with other like minded people. I know I have lots more to learn and experience so hopefully joining here will help in that regard.

serviam

[emeralds]

hello all my name is ellie or emeralds.....im quite new to this and i guess still confused....i have a master but the relationship is rocky and i think temporary but is my first relationship of this type which i have been emotionally and physically attached tooo....and will be devastated when it ends..... i have had a mistress for a little while before who very flatteringly wants me back.......im, i guess, a little out of control of my feelings and desires... i find it hard to accept these feelings of submission and the desire to please my master and at times resent the instant pleasure it gives me... lol but only for a little while......i am struggling with this...and would appreciate the advice from others who have been here...

[anna.kitty]

hello everyone, my tag here is anna.kitty... im a sub in a poly relationship with a wonderful Master and a fellow sub. i came here to learn more of the community and to have people that share my interests to talk to

[kdollseeking]

Hi everyone! I am a 23yr old female with a 31yr old male Master. I am looking for a female sub for a once off meet. A ONE time thing only. She will need to serve along side me as a treat for my Master. Plz msg me if interested.

[lejonhjarta]

hello everyone, i'm lejonhjarta (or lejon if you like), new to this sight and just starting off as a sub. this has shown me so much about myself already and i'm itching to learn more.

a few months back i met my first Domme and it realy changed my life, unfortunatly she lives in differnt country, but she is experienced and moves me in ways i never thought i could be moved. its been a huge awakening for me to learn about this culture, and to learn how much i needed somthing i hardley knew anything about. but looking back on every relationship i've ever had, in some way i was misguidedly trying to in some way be a sub, wich of course lead to alot of problems for me and people i was with. that's history i am now happily learning how to serve, and it's making me about ass happy as i've ever been in my life.

i look forward to meeting some of you and finding some people who understand this life.

[naughtybitch]

their are a few ways you can look at this you can either be of the mind that you should leave and try to move on with your life and mail the man his collar back ground or you can look at it as you need to step up your game and figure out what you are doing that is of a displeasing nature so that you can repent and never error that way again which ever you choose you must make sure you can live with the out come

[mari2008]

Hi, i have been watching here for a while and thought it was time to introduce myself. My name is mari , I met my Dom online over 10 years ago, we drifted apart once but thats it. i can be a big pain to Him and i'm not always obedient as i should be.i enjoy the control He has over me. Even after this long He always has new ideas which i find amazing. I linger her and read hoping to be a better sub/slut.
thanks

[SilverrMist]

Hey old and new people!! i am back!

For those who dont know me, i am an owned and collared slave to my Daddy. Not looking to replace Him but to make new friends and hook up with old friends again.

Good day A/all!

[Reveler]

Hello all!
I've been on this site for a bit, but I'm making an effort to get more active and meet all sorts of people here.
I'm a 21 year old female submissive. I'm straight, but the thought of being dominated by a man or a woman gets me so wet.
Say hi anytime! I'd love to chat and learn.
~ Reveler

[LaffyTaffy]

My name is Brittany and I'm a submissive completely! I have recently joined and etc. I'm looking for a Mistress because I'm lesbian..I wouldn't mind have some fun ^^ I'm generally in happy moods and I'm clumsy all the time..If you want to know more just, message me. ^^

[wolfietina]

Hi Im brand new to this.. im looking for a good and patient male dom willing to teach me. Im willing to learn anything he wants to teach me. I do enjoy a good spanking every now and then. Im also wanting to see what else i might find enjoyable

[spazzakazz]

Hi all I'm new to all this, although I've had a pervey imagination since I was a kid lol. I'm starting to feel like this part of me can't be held down and restricted to fantasy anymore. It's just too big a part of me, so I've started looking for a Mistress. I found this forum through the Stories section and am looking forward to spending more time here. It will probably take a while to find someone I click with in real life, so I was really excited to see the Tasking section. Yay! Practise!! I hope to have some great conversations with you guys

[submissivemike]

I am a submissive with a Mistress that is just getting used to the fact that she is in charge. Her upbring does not support that of a female led relationship nor has she ever heard of such. Despite all of this she is learning due to reading a few good books and some interesting stories. I have been submissive for most of my life, even though my work was that of a boss and thus more dominant. We have been together for about 10 years and I recently approached her with this subject to my surprise she is quite willing to learn.

[subandi]

New Member:

My name is Andi. I'm married to my high school sweetheart. I'm interested in BDSM; he's not as enthusiastic. When I told him it made things kinda weird. I'm submissive in the bedroom and completely independant otherwise. Never had a dom and only experienced a few things in the bedroom that would qualify as anything remotely close to BDSM. I'm looking to get more information about the community, maybe meet some people like myself or some dominant members.

[CallMeP]

Hey, I am P. I first got into it from my ex who was a Dom in every part of the relationship. I liked it in the bedroom but not the rest of the relationship so I got out of it fast. I then kept my sub tendencies quiet until my current partner told me she always had the fantasy of dominating a guy, needless to say it works between us two as what happens in the bedroom stays there.

[jinx]

A little late .. but I never really got around to posting here. So, in the spirit of better late than never:

Greetings!

My name is jinx, and I'm a 26 year old submissive woman. I think I knew on some level that I was submissive for a long time, but I refused to even consider it. I only knew the stereotypes; submissive as victim and broken ragdoll. Not at all how I saw myself, or how I ever, ever wanted to be. It took me a long time, and a few rather strange incidents to help me realize I could be submissive without having to switch off my brain or my will.

I call myself bisexual, but in reality it's about a 90%/10% split between gay/straight. When it comes to bdsm, I've found I really only ever feel submissive toward other women. Not that I hate guys or anything, just the way I'm wired.

I'm currently living stuck way up north in the frozen arse crack of nowhere .. so I get to spend a lot of time online. I actually came across the library almost a year ago, but didn't really start using it until the last month or so. I'm very, very glad to have come back though, since it's by far the nicest, friendliest place for meeting and talking with an amazing range of people into all aspects of the lifestyle .. without the trolls and asshats I'd assumed were just inescapable.

Anyway, that's my slightly overdue introduction .. I'd have had it in earlier, but my dog ate it. I swear!

Luck and joy to all of you, whatever your role and whatever your style.

jinxs

[mastersgirl]

Hi Everyone,
I am mastersgirl. I am in my first real life D/s relationship. We have been together for a little over six months. My Master is a woman but prefers to be called Master. While this is my first D/s relationship, it is also my first lesbian relationship. I have been friends with my Master for about 6 years and we have always been close. When I separated from my husband, she and I began talking and realized how much we had in common. Things have been really good so far. I am learning to be the best self I can be and learning to submit has helped me tremendously. I am here to learn and help others who are new to this as well.

[ownedslut]

Hello I am a submissive woman,I am married to my "Master". I love to please my master in every way.

[susan_haynes19]

My name is Susan. Just joined here a few days ago. I'm a 18 yr old lesbian newbie sub. I have long curly red hair, firm C cups, a small sprinkle of freckles on my forehead, and creamy white skin. I've only been involved into bondage for about a year. I guess you can say that I was forced into thinking and dreaming about bondage by something disgusting that happened to me a few years ago (I can explain more via IM).

[Darkmistress]

Hi I am New to being a submissive and just wanting to talk to people who have done it for a while.

[littlebitofabind]

littlebitofabind here but yall can call me littlebit :-) my history with submission is way too ugly for someone only 20, but on the up and up i recently ended a relationship with my first truly lovely Dom (on good terms, He was going to law school far away and W/we just couldn't do the long distance thing and decided to stay friends). my current boyfriend is brand new to the scene but is willing to learn and catching on quickly. So all in all i'm here because i'm rediscovering what i love about submission and learning all i can about going about it in a healthy SSC way that benefits us both. i also look forward to making new friends in the scene.

[Curiousjane]

Curiosity has killed the cat so to speak

Would love to find out more about the D/s lifestyle.

[kate27101]

Hello Im Kate I have never been dominated but would like a mistress

[deigja]

Hi everyone

I have not been a regular to the site anymore for quite a while so I feel the need to reintroduce myself ;-)

I was really inexperienced when I joined in ... omg .. 2007.. I was just experimenting with myself and really young. By now I have collected some experience, good and bad, not only in the lifestyle. I know a lot better what I want and foremost who I am.
After a clinical depression that kept me from doing almost everything I liked for the last years I am still fighting to get my life back as it was .. or rather as I like it to be now. Part of that, for me, is trying to take part here once again. Perhaps sharing a few thoughts, perhaps only reading, I will see how it goes.

Anyway. I´m glad that I´m back ;-)

Deigja

[wtbtm]

White male looking for Black Top to make me do his wishes and be his white bottom slave. Looking for someone in the Pinhurst, Fayetteville NC area. would love to try water sport with new master and perform his every needs and wishes. Your white bottom awaits your command

[N1X]

hi guys....

feeling a little embarrassed posting online... but...
ive never really given much thought to dom/sub... however in a recent "encounter" with a friend of mine, i realized how ecstatic it felt being submissive... and i guess i just wanted to learn more, and embrace whoever i am....

[elizabethlemon]

Welcome You couldn't have picked a better forum to join. Lots of supportive people here and they absolutely judge no one!

hi guys....

feeling a little embarrassed posting online... but...
ive never really given much thought to dom/sub... however in a recent "encounter" with a friend of mine, i realized how ecstatic it felt being submissive... and i guess i just wanted to learn more, and embrace whoever i am....