Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[moptop]

Oh good grief, I am amazed, I havn't introduced myself here. I'm sure I did somewhere...

Well, I'm 47, I love being bound, constricted, whipped, am learning to be spanked, but I really don't know if I would classify myself as submissive, when I look at the desire to serve and lose themselves to their Masters that many of the subs here have. I just don't have that - I feel I've fought hard to get to be me, I'm proud of my me-ness, and I am damned if I'm going to lose it. On the other hand... oh yes, I certainly submit when involved sexually. But not the rest of the time. Unh-unh.

I had my first BDSM experience when I was about 18; tied up and whipped roundly many times. Loved it. I have been in vanilla relationships mainly since, except one other where dressing (for him, cross-dressing), light bondage and pretty heavy strangulation were important. But nothing since for 11 years...

I started a new relationship just recently, which has taken me rapidly and with huge pleasure straight back into bondage - introduced spanking - and introduced a level of submission I had not encountered before, since this man knows about domination, and boy, has it had an effect... went doolally a bit, and ended up here. This site and everyone on it has been a huge help for learning and support.

Whilst being vaguely aware of masochism, sadism and bondage, the actual D/s scene and the concept of Master/slave is completely new to me since joining this forum. Still trying to get my head round it...

[Ali]

Hi everyone
I'm sorry but i can't use my real name, you see i'm actually the only person in my country who has this name and any icelandic person who might be here could look me up easily if i gave it, and i'm not really ready for that.

Anyway i'm a 23 year old male with no real life bdsm experience.
I'm both submissive and very proud and stubborn.
I've always challenged any authority figure but at the same time wanted many of them to earn my respect by shutting me up.
i'm pretty sure that i'm straight, but i've had many fantasies of servicing men sexually and even been attracted to a guy or two.
i'm definitely not ready to jump headfirst into the bdsm lifestyle, i'm mostly here to learn and seperate fact from fiction and hopefully make some friends.

right now i'm getting that exciting tingly feeling in my stomach just from posting here and telling people about these things i've always kept well guarded. it feels very wonderful and liberating

[dynamicbuttler]

Hi. Like the cool poster before me, I will not say my name. I'm paranoid, and there's plenty of people who'd love to make fun of me if they found out I was on a site like this. I've always been a sub, and I've always thought of things like submission and being raped while other guys my age just thought of fucking some spanish girl in missionary position... (Enough to make me fall asleep)
I look foward to meeting people, especially mistresses! want them to educate me, and tell me about the lifestyle... I majorly want to get to know them and see what they're like- I've always had a fascination with women who like being worshiped, and to actually get to know a girl like this (even in a friendly way) would be a thrill I can't describe!
In the bedroom, I greatly respect power. Whips are fun, but what I'd really love is a girl who likes working with her feet and fists... (Drools)
Well, cool to be here. See you people around.

[pie_loves_pain]

Gooday, Sir/Ma'am! I am Pie, a 20 year old sub from the east coast. I'm still very new to all of this, but I'm learning quickly, and very willing! I'm always looking to learn new things, and to understand why Masters/Mistresses choose their "tools".

[wolfs_lilgirl]

hi im..wolfs lil girl im kinda new at this.. busy life.. and well im likin this life so so much...my master is.. wolfscout!! and i getting into this a lot!! hope every one has a very nice xmas and new year!! bye bye

[Can's Peaches]

Hi I am canEHdianMAN's sub. I am new to this. I will soon be moving to be with my Dom and continue my trianing. Any advise would be helpful. I have been reading some of the threads and find them to be very informative.

I am so excited about about this. I had only just started learning about D/s when I found my Dom. I think I have always been submissive before I knew what that was.

I look forward to learning more.

[Dorkalicious]

Hello everyone,

I'm Dorkalicious I consider myself a sub, but I know I have a lot of learning to do. I am currently with someone and we have experimented with D/s, and I definitely enjoy being submissive.

I have been thinking about having a same sex "experience", but haven't had the chance to try it. This urge could possibly be only because I am 19, and am just in that phase of my life...

Not much else to say about me, hopefully I get into these forums enough so that you might get to know me better (or you could message me).

[sunnykub]

i am sunnykub, i guess i've always been submissive and didn't know it until i started reading some on another site and found my way here. Just from the little bit of reading i've done on the forum and on the story section i'm very interested in D/s and S/m, but i don't know how my hubby will take it. He knows i'm wired to feel pain=pleasure, but the few times i've suggested i want him to take control or be dominate over me he puts it off, making me feel stupid for asking for it. Plus it doesn't help that my sex drive is a lot higher than his. Well i think i've said too much see you guys around

sunny

[booklet3]

Hi, I'm booklet3;

I already introduced myself generally in the in the general introduction thread, but browsing the forums, I thought introducing and expanding on my submissiveness, would be better suited here.
I am a 54 y/o bi male from the Netherlands and from very early boy-hood aware of beiing submissive. I have always thought and still think, I should have been born a woman, not because I think women are by definition submissive, on the contrary actually, but because of the macho and somewhat agressive role society imposes on me as a male. So my submissiveness is not so much physical as it is of the mind. For me there is no greater pleasure as to please and/or to serve, regardless of sex/gender. Sexual pleasure to me is not really relevant. Ironically during my life so far I have often found myself in a position of power, as a p/o in our Navy, as a police-officer and detective, as captain of sailing-barges and now as an employer. Still, I think beiing aware of my "sub-side", might have made me a "better" person. I am generally considered a "softy" (a compliment I think) and I find it very hard to punish or pass judgement on others. Having experimented here and there over the years, now may have come the time to explore further and maybe learn or be teached, so here I am;
Respectfully

booklet3

[mstrtchrsgirl]

helloooooo )

my name is nik and i am a real life alpha submissive. i live with my Master "Mstr Tchr". He has been involved in the BDSM communty for over 33 years and has trained many submissives / slaves. He is sought out by many and is very well respected for His teachings and understandings of the submissives needs / cravings and desires. i searched for many years and had experienced another Master / Fem Master before finding my Sir so i have quite a few years real life experience

i am truly blessed to be living what i have always desired. i was born a submissive but i am known as an "alpha" as opposed to a beta.

i adore , worship and idolise my Sir and i always try my best to please

Being an alpha means i have within me a "streak" to dominate the "beta's" which Sir has graciously given me permission to explore.

i adore all elements of BDSM and know how very loving and trusting a relationship like this can be. i am respected and always kept safe even in "sessions" which are amazing i know i am loved and safe so any "scenerio" is acceptable

i love talking to other submissives so please drop me a line anytime

nik xxx

[crikey_2004]

Hi nik, thank you for your post. I had never heard of an alpha or beta sub before, so I was really glad that you explained it. I'm new and hanging out with my eyes completely popping out of my head at the idea that some of the fantasy that I thought was filed away in the darkest recesses of my mind would be so openly discussed here by real-life people! One day I eventually hope to be able to write about real life experiences of my own

Welcome!!!!
Mike

[ms2bused]

I am a total lesbian submissive as I was brought 'out' by a lovely Jewish woman 9 years my senior who intuitively sensed my adoration for other feminine women and my inborn preferrence of compoete submissiveness to them! I am not into men at all, no matter what they may be so I am happy that you found your niche in life but I am still eagerly searching for my permanent Domme!

Best of luck,

neenee
(JaneenMarie O'Brien)

Yahoo.Messenger=janeenobrien

[Eponine]

hello everyone.
i enjoyed reading everyone's bios. online is the only venue i have right now to share words and time with other subs (and Dom/mes).
i am currently a non-practicing sub female. i've had some nice experiences so far- once serving a Dom, once a F/F couple, once a Mistress, and once a M/F couple. I enjoyed each one, but I think my last, with the Master and Mistress, was the most all-encompassing. I enjoyed serving in every way- sexually and nonsexually, having scenes, being spanked, etc... *sigh* I miss those times.
Right now, though, I am going through a divorce from my vanilla husband and I have my two-year-old to focus on. So... the sub lives on inside, waiting for release into tangibility. One day...

[ultimatesubbie]

I am ultimatesubbie (known as baby slut to Master who is also my husband). Master is relatively new to BDSM, and I have had several years playing and also living the lifestyle with a Dom and his slave for several months. I enjoyed discussing the lifestyle with others but I am not looking for anyone on a personal level whatsoever. I am still amazed that even though Master and I have been together nearly 2 years, He is never shocked at my perverted tastes (and they are many and varied!) I consider myself mainly hetro, but also have bi interests on ocassion.....
My motto is - each to their own......I used to be active in the scene in my city but Master isn't interested in that, so we don't go. Our play is always private and intimate.

[malesub13]

hi im 19yrs old, jus found out few months back im a total sub. love having orgasms taken from me repeatedly without consent leaving my body as just a machine for my mistress feeling my cock pulse, explode, and grow in her special spot. I am willing to try new things once grounds are set. Love suspension, humiliation, wax play. Looking for a mistress to meet online and be trained to the next level. im ready to serve and please her in any way possible. become her total sex slave !

[silkysmooth10]

Hi all....I'm a 23 yr. old sub male from ohio. I'm new to this site and to the scene, really. I'm a sub. sissy at heart for awhile now and I love to dress feminine. I love wearing lingerie, nylons, bras, heels, etc. I would love to be dominated by a strict mistress whenever i can get the opportunity and i am extremely obedient. I am willing to try ANYTHING and would love to be disciplined....willing to be your slave.

[slave_amy]

Hi Im slave amy and I have been a slave for a just a short time, my live in master and I are both new to this scene and are both loving it! I love having my tits and nipples tortured!! I enjoy talking and sharing stories with other subs and doms!

[ceegee{Benz}]

waves......

Hi my name is ceegee and am RL slave to my Master Benz.
I have been in the L/S for about 9 years now and I love everything and anything...esp making Benz proud.
Have a crazy ssence of humour and I seem to make friends real easy (prob cos of my sick and warped sence of humour LOL)
Benz says to know me is to love me.
I do not trust easy...and have been a victim and a surviviour as well. But am on the road to total recovery with the help and guidance and nurturing from Benz

[theman439]

hi im theman439.


im looking for a mistress to dominate me. so anyone living in toronto and looking for a slave contact me.

[Daddysgirl666]

Hi everyone. My name is Elaine and I'm a 21 year old college student living in the Bay Area who just discovered the forums although I've been reading the stories on this site for ages. I'm a submissive currently involved in a poly live-in TPE relationship, or as close to as we can approximate. I've been in this relationship for about a year. I had a dominant for several years previous to this one that I started serving when I was 17. Unfortunately, changes that came with the territory of moving, going to college and starting a new life in another place affected our relationship and we grew apart. I had several play partners in high school that I experimented switching with, but found out it wasn't for me. So yeah, that's me *waves*.

[crikey_2004]

Hi daddysgirl, welcome aboard! I look forward to seeing posts about what you are up to now!

[butterflySlave4u]

My name is Karen...I am 49 years old. and just within the past 18 months I have identified my submissive side...but I guess I'm a little bit unique in that all of my relationships with D/doms have been online only...I have issues with men, having been a physically abused wife years ago...My current Master understands my limitations as far as r/l goes, and He is alright with this....He is patient in His guidance...nothing pleases me more that to please Him...nothing hurts me more than to disappoint Him...and my loyalty and devotion to Him are absolute...it was He that taught me the relationship of pleasure to pain...and I owe Him nothing less than my total respect and admiration....

[Chris A.]

hello my name is Chris, I am 22 yrs old and have known since i lost my virginity that i am a sub, i love to serve. my last mistress i was with for 4 years, but she was not to into it. but i loved it when she commanded me it gave me such pride, but when i failed i had a almost unbearable feeling of shame. i'm here to learn more and possibly be "trained" by a mistress that knows what she is doing and who will delight in my servitude as i do. oh just for the record i'm up for almost anything.

[Eponine]

Hello Everyone...
just wanted to say hi and that, as my status states, i am the same person who used "ThisGirl" as a username.
And welcome to all new forum-posters.

[Rhabbi]

Hi and congrats on your new nick and status.

[switch_hitter]

Hi,

I'm switch hitter. I am a bi-male from Sacramento, Ca interested in both being a dom and sub. Right now, I don't have anyone, but I'm looking for a long-term relationship with a woman who is of similar mind.

[Masters_diamond]

Hi everyone
My slave name is Masters_diamond and I was named after my Master. I have been a slave for over two years,but some of it online and the last 7-8 months i have had a real life 24/7 experience with my Master i have now.all that is missing is a sister sub/slave for me and my Master.to join our family.hope to get tto know some of you.
Masters_diamond< Owned slave of one of the TM's on Academy

[cazee]

hello i am cazee
i dont have a Dom/Master as i am still learning the ropes (no pun intended!).
i am a quiet person used to solitude, dont cope well with groups/crowds, although the internet helps a great deal with that as i can still be hidden and be a part of a group as well.
i have a very experimental nature and think there is so much in the world to try before we die - just a shame that i am too much of a coward to do most of them lol.
anyway - hello to every body !
cazee xx

[angelic.zest]

Welcome to all the newcomers!!!

[Masters_diamond]

I want to say hi to everyone.I am an Owned and Collared Slave of my Masters. i serve in real life.i have been in this lifestyle for about 2 yrs.if any
one has any questions on what i do,i'll be happy to answer them for you.have a good day everyone

Masters_diamond