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The beginning of a Journey

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, 07-27-2008 at 04:53 AM (1234 Views)

Having read and read and read anything under the sun about bdsm, made the decision to take it a step further. But then again that is easier said then done. Even though bdsm and other fetishes seem to be in vogue and accepted as an *in* thing to do, there is still a certain stigma attached, especially when one would want to have a serious conversation about it. I mean it is ok for *others* to be that way, but for themselves it is just not acceptable. I guess what I mean I was trying to have a conversation with co-workers about bdsm and all i got was giggles and ohh that sounds so exciting i would not mind being *tied* up some time. But I'm not looking for the occasional *dip* into the world of Domination and submission, I believe in all my heart and could be a way of life. Oh I do not mean being in chain's 24/7 but I believe Mastery over another person does not turn on and off at the bedroom door.

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gypsiecowboy - 08-31-2008 05:44 PM
Ahhhhhhhh, I responded to a later post of yours before I looked at your earlier posts. I agree with you wholeheartedly. It is difficult to find somone to share your questions and needs with if you are looking among the babelonian hordes of co workers, friends, acquaintances, coffeehouse compatriots, etc. And the lifestyle goes beyond the bedroom yet there is no way I could ever want to be in control 24/7. I strongly believe that each of us needs encouragement to be an individual and to be strong enough to aim for his/her own needs to be met - to take and to give by choice, by educated and respectful and honest choice. I can see that I might meet someone again some time who I might wish to top in and out of the bedroom. I loved teaching and introducing and my previous relationship lasted 13 years, the one before that lasted 7 years. Being friends still with the woman from the 7 year relationship it is strange to know that now I am considered enemy of the more recent lady. But I look around at my many friends of the usually tender gender and know that I could never make love to any of them, could never accept responsibility for any of them. Yet I keep looking and hoping; and knowing that it might happen... I want to help as long as I can know that both parties are ...uh... enjoying (no)... growing into... growing with... turned on by... hmmmmmmmmmmm... having needs met by... oooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhh well, as the Big
Bopper sang in the 50s - Honey, you KNOW what I like!!!
-GypsieCowboy