Quote Originally Posted by twitch View Post
To the issue of some Dom's saying they would never treat a sub to oral sex - I believe that is a different issue, and due to the perception that it would be a power exchange in favor of the sub, and that they, being the dominant, would not wish to change that dynamic.
Do you mind explaining this more, please? How does oral sex tip the scales in favor of the sub? Surely control is control...Whether a Dominant uses his fingers, his cock or (gasp)his tongue to drive the sub crazy.

I respect each persons right to do as they believe is best, I'm simply trying to understand better.