I am so glad with everyone's responses to this. My freinds would beg to differ on this point. They are in the agreement that if you have a strong relationship it will not matter in the long term what you end up looking like. I am the opposite. I need to maintain my weight, my mind, and my looks. If I go astray, I will be reminded to start into a better routine of exercise, eating healthier, reading books and practicing my music.
I see no wrong in staying fit, healthy and smart for my significant other.