A catch-22 situation?

[fantassy]

Admittedly I am not the most submissive of submissives, but why to you think there is something wrong with stating your wants? I am free to hint, suggest, glare, & subtly express my displeasure. Knowing my wants, my Dom gets to grant my want or ignore it at his pleasure. He wants to have as much information from me as possible when he makes his decision. You make the assumption that if you tell a Dom your desire, he will grant your desire. More likely, sometimes he will and sometimes he won't. I know my Dom gets lots of pleasure from knowing what I want and withholding it from me (at least for a while). So you won't be less of a submissive to telling your desires, he'll just be a better informed Dom.

fantassy

[Timberwolf]

Admittedly I am not the most submissive of submissives, but why to you think there is something wrong with stating your wants? I am free to hint, suggest, glare, & subtly express my displeasure. Knowing my wants, my Dom gets to grant my want or ignore it at his pleasure. He wants to have as much information from me as possible when he makes his decision. You make the assumption that if you tell a Dom your desire, he will grant your desire. More likely, sometimes he will and sometimes he won't. I know my Dom gets lots of pleasure from knowing what I want and withholding it from me (at least for a while). So you won't be less of a submissive to telling your desires, he'll just be a better informed Dom.

fantassy

I agree with every word of that. I would much rather have a sub with ideas, and the freedom to express them. It doesn't mean every idea will come into being, but I'd still like to know all the same.