I think Lola's fantasy is much more about having control taken from you than being raped, per se.

If you go into a seedy bar, hang around by yourself drinking, eye all the available options, and leave with a couple of them, losing control of the situation is something that is almost certainly going to happen. And being taken - hard! - by more than one man at a time is also a fantasy that many women share.

Not that I speak from personal experience, of course ... god, those were the good old days