I used to wonder if there was something wrong with me because I never could orgasm. All my friends would be talking about how hard they would cum during sex or oral or something, and I was having sex and all the other fun things but I just never could orgasm. I had my first orgasm about a year ago, so it took me years. I was in shock when I finally had an orgasm, I sort of figured I just would never be able to. I know there is some women who just can’t orgasm, I always figured I was one of them. Personally I don’t think i was at all near a sexual place in my life until about a year ago. After I was able to grow within myself I guess my body responded. I don’t really have any advice, seeing your doctor is never a bad idea when it comes to questions.