[QUOTE=crikey_2004;270628] If the one person you know (you) can't produce an orgasm, it's less likely anyone else ever will... /QUOTE]

I disagree with this assessment. For me orgasming is about relaxing, turning the brain off and focusing entirely on the feelings generated. If I an the one touching myself, that is more difficult to do. A partner or good BOB makes that focus much easier.

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