Quote Originally Posted by Nuadu
I came to this site looking for some new bondage ideas. I am surprised by what I found; had never even heard of D/s! nor this lifestyle that most everyone here seems to be talking about. My personal opinion, which is actually a question in itself: why bother tying/cuffing or spanking/whipping/etc. if you aren't going to have sex? To me bondage without sex would be like eating icing without cake!
I like your metaphor

Though I know people (including me) who do like to eat icing without cake. What I think is even weirder are people who like to eat cake, but with no icing!
*gasp, shock*