Agrees.

And this is the reason why I think it better to start getting into the lifestyle with an experienced Dom if you are a sub and new at this. He will be able to recognize the signs and soften them, and maybe even more important: He will not be freaked out by your reaction, or feel guilty about having caused it.

I still have it happen sometimes, though my Dom knows how to keep me from falling too deep - still, it can take me longer than just 2 days to "rearrange" my personality/feelings to the new things I just did. And mind - we have been together for 9 years.

It might help to have someone with whom you can speak about your experiences, but in my opinion it is the best thing if the person you played with is close and has both the time and the stamina to talk about your feelings and make you feel better.

Kind regards
Arria