Lately I've been more unsure of myself. I definitely prefer being submissive, but once in awhile I'd like to take control. I'm not sure how I'd feel actually doing it, or if that even would make me a switch or not. I feel like it might change things between us and I don't want that to happen.

But still, the thought of seeing the places changed...


Do you feel the urge to dom and sub a single person at the same time? Maybe at different times during the same scene?

Sometimes I'd like to, but I usually wouldn't dare to try it.

-Do you dom and sub at the same time, but with different partners (I'm a sub for this person, but a dom for this person)?

No, I've never played with more than one person at a time during a scene. I'm not sure I'd be able to do that with more than one partner.


-Do you take turns with your partner (tonight, I'll be the boss, tomorrow night, you be the boss)?

This hasn't ever happened to me. We've never actually taken turns, he has always been dominant to me. Once in awhile I'll jokingly order him around, and I do like it. I would just much rather be submissive.

-Do you feel like a dom/sub for long periods of time, then feel the need to switch again (i.e. feeling like being the sub for weeks/months/years then kind of feeling dom-my for awhile)?

This happens to me sometimes, but the submissive streak has been years. Every month or so I'll get the urge to play Domme.