Well, if it were me and my husband was more sensual I would want to be talked to in a very soothing voice about how have pleased him and to be touched. I love sensual touch. My ideal evening would start off with a dinner as he teased the hell out of me during dinner. Progressing to maybe an evening of dancing where I could tease the hell out of him as he does me. Hands everywhere. Then be taken to the decorated room where I am subjected to a wonderful flogging, cropping and sex! Having him touch me gentle but possively. I love hearing him say I am his and how much he needs me as his slave. Mostly knowing that I am pleasing him gives me much pleasure. To ME knowing that I have pleased him and serving him as he like, wants and even needs is greater than anything! I can't give you the words but hopefully this gives you some ideas that I am sure your sub might like to hear.