Theres allways thet list thingi, has any one got one.

I have one but i dont have a link, if you like i can send it to you, It wont be all you'll need but it may be good for you too read one and think about what you like the sound of (so to speek) then you can reacerch them in the knowledge base here or ask more specific questions to get information, well thats what were here for.

All that said, i had a reasonably gradual introduction into BDSM, starting with some light bondage 4-5 years ago, and im still finding new things now, but what i do find most usefull is this site, your in the right place, i did'nt have this site to explane things because it was all abit confussing emotionally because i was 16 of 17 (i forget) when my girlfriend and i started playing with it.

Hopefully one of the Moderators will have a link to one of the lists. but bear in mind it will change but it may be a good idea to know whats out there.