topping from the bottom

[Tojo]

Those are all really great ideas and I will try some of them, but in general, he gives me much room to make my own choices, i:e when I ask what he would like for dinner the answer is normaly, "whatever you would like to cook"

Poptart

Well no wonder you're 'topping from the bottom' then...

Not all Masters are perfect- the answer to that would be 'whatever pleases you Master'. Or maybe give him some choices.

Seems to me that a lot of 'topping from the bottom' is done by a sub who doesn't have a clear direction, or doesn't feel like she's being Dommed.

Just my opinion...

Tojo