Well I don't mind that he allows me the small choices in things, I actually feel comfortable with that, I just need to learn to bite my tounge when not give a choice or when not asked for my input on things. But we talked the other night and I feel much better and back in my place, I read an artical that said, to act as if the change already happened and I am going to try to apply that to myself. Thanks for all your coments though.

poptart