we've built up quite a large collection of toys over the years mostly bought by him but they're ours and we've always said that neither of us would use them with anyone else anyway, they would be thrown away.
But my collar is his property and he would never throw that he would either keep it himself or allow me to keep it as a special memento.

i know some subs prefer to collect and use their own for financial,safety and hygiene reasons if they dont plan on having long term r/ships which i think is a good idea.

feelings on being Dominated? well tbh i dont really romanticise it or sit and think about it as such,its our r/ship and just happens naturally...of course there are the odd moments where i rant and rave (ooops subs rnt supposed to admit to that lol) and rebel and it drives me nuts when im thinking grrr do i HAVE to do that i HATE lol after all i am human!! but it quickly passes and everythings back on track.