Well, as the Chat Administrator, I can officially say that the chatroom here is laid back, low key, and there is NO protocols observed in the room, beyond the mandatory basic level of respect for everyone--Dom/me, sub, switch, other--that you would have for anyone in r/l. What you choose to call people is your own decision. Some feel comfortable calling a Dominant "Sir/Ma'am", some don't, completely up to you. I personally call no one Sir/Ma'am except for my Owner. If anyone "demands" to be called something, let a chat mod (in gold), or myself know, and we'll be sure to have a word with them--there are no demands in the room, beyond basic respect.

Hope to see you around!

Play hard, play safe,

delia