I am a Switch, I have my Master whom I cherish and He has encouraged me to seek out a sub so I am able to be the Domme He enjoys watching. He does not take part in this relationship I have with my sub, but He guides me. I have always been Domme with women and some men. In the role as Domme I do not ever Switch, as a sub, I would never Switch either unless it is the wishes of my Master. What I appreciate as a sub is that I go from a person the is always in control, a person who commands attention and respect, to a person who can pour all of my being into providing the care a nurturing a sub should in serving their Master. I can let me be me and be soft. I can look up and see I have made Him happy. Make any sense to anyone??? I do feel though by being so cut and dry I do end up with an inner conflict that can be hard to deal with at times.