im not a switch but my point is.......... who cares? each to their own. lots of diffrent people like lots of diffrent things. who cares if its a a bit of this or a bit of that, or a bit both in this case. it isnt like their is a BDSM rule book. enjoy what you like and leave out what you dont like. and again, who cares what the people who think you are confused think. if they cant except why someone likes something diffrent to them when they are in to BDSM, then they are confused