Remember the journey will be hard at times. The way is steep and fraght with dificulties.

I have been through more than my fair share of relationships before finding my true destinty at my owners side.

For my sisters of the collar in regards to real life situations:

Be safe first have fun second. Never meet new dominants and submit to them without reservation. It takes time for them to earn your trust with actions not just words. Allways have a third party that can watch out (call the cops if nessesary etc)for you especially when in the begining of a relationship with a prospective new dominant (being abducted and or raped and tortured or worse is no laughing matter believe me) i didnt know i was in serious trouble until two whole weeks in and if not for my loving Master i wouldnt be here today to type this.

Once safety and trust is established over a sutable period you may relax such constraints and truely begin to grow into your submission. Patience and communication is key. Withhold no information from him once in real life at this point, the more he knows of your thoughts and desires the better he will become at holding dominion over you and the more fuffilled you both will be.

Once the technical features of testing your and his limitations and desires have been measured (which may take some years) and careful consideration has been made on both parts, and you begin to sing in harmony, litterally knowing each others thoughts, then you can really embrace your utter submission and become more free than ever you were before. It is then when on your knees in tears of joy, you will confront the naked truth and utter bliss of complete domination and love. It is then that you will thrive together.

Do not race to the end of the path, walk...walk slowly and savor every moment.