Even as/for a male, anal play can be very enjoyable, extremely intimate, and a unique experience. Heteronormative and hypermasculine culture downplays and even taboos how many men actually enjoy both oral and light penetration play. While it does conflict with the active concept (myth) of the male sexuality and performance, it is not necessarily a submissive act (though it of course can be). For example, when orally performed, it can be an act of humiliation for the submissive, based on cultural taboos and even idioms in the lexicon: kiss my ass, suck my asshole. The beauty of O/ur world is that we can slant any experience into exactly what W/e want it to be. I would love to hear other's views on this.