I honestly think it depends on the connection, it does for me anyway, i have only really ever served one and i know that the connection is very very strong, i feel totally owned i would be very much lost without here so i may well feel worse about losing my Domma than i have say over losing a sub. either way for me i have to really know, trust and respect the other so ending a relationship is going to have its low points and feelings of loss and remorse i am sure.