omg that is the funniest thing I've seen in awhile.
So i asked one. Yes just one. Why he Sir Domly Dom wanted me to play with him. I was actually shocked at the answer.
I'm shocked in general when boys say things of this nature anyway but he says "because I don't just wanna play with someone. I want a relationship but I don't want one with a sub. I want a relationship with someone who can Dom as a Dom not as a sub. So that she and I can have subs together."
It was... sweet. I don't talk to him much anymore though.