Well from talking to a lot of Doms I've noticed that we get a long better in general. It's something I didn't experience as a sub and not because I was a doormat. The dynamic of the relationship itself is very different. He actually did make me think about the scenario a lot. Not to the extremes that you took it mr subiest sub subby but just the dynamics.
A few things though. He never wanted me to sub. Never mentioned it actually. I think it may be easier to approach a switch with this than a Domme. We all know that relationships come in all different shapes and sizes... I'm a pansexual gender queer bio girl who switches for christ sakes! I could date... well i think everyone is covered in that. But, it's hard to break away from this idea that a Dom would seek out another Dom for a relationship. Call it the last taboo.
I've seen hundreds if not thousands of profiles of boys, girls, trannies, Doms, subs etc. I have yet to see one that says "Dom looking for Dom". I'm sure he shares my idea on this so why not talk to the person (or people) who don't associate with either side. It must be easier.
Oh and fetishdj.... I did talk to him long enough to gather that he really likes blow jobs from boys and your forgetting the awesome set up... where I Dom subs by ordering them to do things to him.