"Is that crazy or what?! LOL We may get kicked out of the lifestyle for having too much fun!"

I don't think you can get "kicked out", I mean I'm pretty sure I didn't ask permission to be let it either. So it doesn't really matter what anybody else thinks, or if they're confused, as long as the two ... no three ... is it four? ... as long as you guys know "whos on first" ... what else matters?

Do your thing! Personally ... it sounds like a lot of fun!