Just remember that the "stories" are just that, stories, not to be confussed with reality.

Safty first, kinky second.

In addition to a lot of information in the forums we also have a wonderful safe site ran Tasking Society that is exactly something that may be right up your alley Gentle.

Its located just a little further down in the forums.

Self bondage though no substitute, can be as much fun as the creativity and effort one puts into it and is a good skill set to develope. Especially useful for those in long distance relationships, and one doesnt nessesarally have to progress from being alone to with an online partner, to real life if they dont wish to do so.

Please feel free to ask if you ever need any assistance.