When it comes to masturbation, I'm terribly lazy. And I only masturbate clitorally? (not sure how to make clitoris an adverb..) Anyway, I usually always needs vicks vapor rub and about 3 or 4 hours just to cum once...which lasts like 5 seconds... it's really annoying. Fucking is just so much more convenient. I used to love masturbating, but now it hardly seems worth the effort. My head hurts from constantly trying to keep coming up with better fantasies...after a couple of hours that becomes really hard! I usually try not to masturbate, because it's rare that I have a nice 4 hour window to do it in.

I always masturbate alone because so much of what makes me orgasm is my own fantasies in my mind...anyone else there will only distract me from that...so if the scene ISN'T a fantasy, then my basic mindset is, "GET OUT!" May sound rude, but hey, you gotta do what works.