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    Quote Originally Posted by Timberwolf View Post
    This came up in a chat I had the other day and I thought I'd ask here. For those of you who play both sides of the fence in more ways than one ;-) I was just curious, are there certain combinations that don't appeal to you in terms of combining gender with Dom/sub? Meaning:

    A Dominant, other sex partner.
    A Dominant, same sex partner.
    A submissive, other sex partner.
    A submissive, same sex partner.

    Do all four appeal to you or are there some that do not? I was talking with a bisexual girl the other day who said she enjoyed submitting to men but liked her women more vanilla, and I was curious how others felt on this.
    I would like to add a question: does anyone feel that these things change with time and circumstances?

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    Quote Originally Posted by thir View Post
    I would like to add a question: does anyone feel that these things change with time and circumstances?
    An interesting question I look forward to hearing answers to....

    ...for, from the perspective of a die-hard dominant, I would say yes, it has to. Even for me, what I look for in a sub changes with time and circumstances. I'm lucky to have a girl who grows and changes with me.

    It would appear, from my perspective, that folk who are less rigid in their D/s orientation are going to be even more open to such changes.

    But that's me, looking in from the outside.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
    An interesting question I look forward to hearing answers to....

    ...for, from the perspective of a die-hard dominant, I would say yes, it has to. Even for me, what I look for in a sub changes with time and circumstances. I'm lucky to have a girl who grows and changes with me.

    It would appear, from my perspective, that folk who are less rigid in their D/s orientation are going to be even more open to such changes.

    But that's me, looking in from the outside.

    Personally I went from sub - well, not sub actually, and not bottom - to dominant, to switch - sort of. Words too imprecise, I do not know what to call things..
    But changes, anyway.
    I have seen the same developement in some of my friends, but for different reasons.

    I have also experienced all of these needs being pushed to the background in various periods of my life, when survival claimed everything for a while.

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