The Same Partner Or Different?

[Asia]

I would love to find myself a female switch, but I agree switching with one person presents a degree of challenge. But then again, that could be part of the discipline of a D/s relationship, when it comes to being a switch. Some days you might feel more one way or the other, but perhaps you're stuck in the other role at the time, and the discipline is being what you'r esupposed to be at the moment.

Sir,
I am a female SwiTcH in my real life and I can tell you it's not that difficult or confusing at all. It helps that we both have stressful jobs and need to be very assertive at work, when we get home, He is usually Dom and me fiery, we clash, that leads to heated and aggressive passion and lust. Evolutionary theorists observe this behaviour in the animal kingdom - one of us will bear our necks to the the other, even though the fight to get to that state is as equally arousing as the willingness to submit or the victory of Domination itself.
Asia
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[Timberwolf]

Sounds to me like you've got a very interesting home life indeed.

[Asia]

Sounds to me like you've got a very interesting home life indeed.

It helps if he's not in an extreme Dom mood when it comes to housework though *winks*
Asia
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[Dundee]

Sir,
I am a female SwiTcH in my real life and I can tell you it's not that difficult or confusing at all. It helps that we both have stressful jobs and need to be very assertive at work, when we get home, He is usually Dom and me fiery, we clash, that leads to heated and aggressive passion and lust. Evolutionary theorists observe this behaviour in the animal kingdom - one of us will bear our necks to the the other, even though the fight to get to that state is as equally arousing as the willingness to submit or the victory of Domination itself.
Asia
xxx

Despite all your struggling (and I have to admit you looked really fired up and cute, even though I know you hate that word) you always ended up bearing your neck and boy, what a sensitive neck you have, all the better to hold you down and collar you with. Your man is one lucky dude, send my regards
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[Noontide]

Sir,
I am a female SwiTcH in my real life and I can tell you it's not that difficult or confusing at all. It helps that we both have stressful jobs and need to be very assertive at work, when we get home, He is usually Dom and me fiery, we clash, that leads to heated and aggressive passion and lust. Evolutionary theorists observe this behaviour in the animal kingdom - one of us will bear our necks to the the other, even though the fight to get to that state is as equally arousing as the willingness to submit or the victory of Domination itself.
Asia
xxx

asia, was just browsing this thread when i read the above. you certainly touched something deep with those words!!!!! got me thinking!!!! i'm new to the forum and to bdsm and feel like a sub and yet dont!! so i started looking at switch questions and found your words!!! glad you shared and glad that i read...