Well, the budgeting worked out well. A day or two after he ignored my orders I caught him readjusting himself and I had already warned him not to touch it, or that was five orgasms he was out for the week. which took him down to 3 for the rest of the week. He really started to squirm when he realized he was out of orgasms after only 4 days into the week. He began to plead with me for ways to earn some back, mind you he only had one shot at it and he had to perform above and beyond orally before I'd allow him to cum. Mind you, I realized that he has a lot more potential with oral sex than he normally performs,he just felt particularly challenged when i told him it had to be an A+ before there was any pleasure for him whatsoever, as he was out of orgasms at that point. I kept to the no touch rule for him altogether, which includes peeing like a girl and no masturbating or rearranging. I had to clean it for him and it had to be on my schedule. If he wanted a clean penis, then he had to shower when I showered, and it wasn't allowable to have sex or even for me to stroke it if it wasn't clean. This he knew about from day one as well. One night in particular I DID record my sub edging. He thought it was awkward and if I ever have him do it again, I think I might put a clothespin on his tongue. He talks WAY too much when he's nervous. On one other night, I pulled out the ropes and bound his arms behind his back and teasingly kept him going for about an hour. At first, it was just a gentle touch here and there, while I pleasured myself, once again making him squirm and plead for something more. Then I would move on to gently passing my lips over his penis, delicately touching like a dry kiss. This was enough to make him moan and plead more, until the kisses slightly involved some small amount of tongue and a little nipping, until he begged to be able to please me, because my moaning was more than enough alone to make him beg, but with all the teasing just drove him crazy and he literally begged until it was too much for me to stop myself. Begging always gets me going.. Anyways It was a pretty successful week. His week to dom is this week, and really my being so strict with him has made him dom me more consistently to the point where he doesn't always cave in immediately to what I want, and he his learning to be more assertive with what he wants too, which I am really happy about.
Thank you everyone for all of your comments and suggestions, as they served as my muse to keep going and thinking of new ways to make him squirm. This forum has been most helpful and supportive and I greatly appreciate the help.