[QUOTE=Ozme52;908735]Realizing that herein, you're preaching to the the choir. I doubt anyone would suggest that clothing obviates the right to say no.
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You do no think so? But there is something here about this, for instance if you are on a street after dark you are asking for it.

The statement about teaching safewords to vanillas would be an asset save that sex education, when it's allowed, rarely (ever?) includes anything more than an anatomy lesson. How are we helping anyone understand their urges, motivations, and consideration of others with anatomy lessons? Does "No means no" even appear in the curriculum? ...or is it merely a billboard motto. I doubt it, (realizing it's been a long time since I was in a sex-ed class.)
I do think that if 'no' is not accepted, then no safeword is.