Thank-You!! One thing about being a writer, even a hobby-writer: battling self-consciousness. But encouragement like yours does help!! As you say, yes, it's obviously an easy site to become attached to!!
Right now, we're all in the midst of getting the house ready for the new arrivals, taking of babycat Eydis (born dec 25th, and who's growing like a weed), and overall getting ready to re-enter 24/7 Lifestyle again Fully.
The past year and some has been pretty rough, so at best we've been 'Lite' BDSM...but now that the storms are passed, it's time to get back to an essential aspect of who were are.
Also, it's a really good way and chance to put the Past behind us, so in some ways, this is almost a new beginning too.