Welcome to the library. deigja's advice is great re: where to post, (unless you are looking for a person to join you and your wife in which case I would point at the personals)

Regarding how odd it is, who knows? We are all a little odd here *grins* so rather than getting worried about that, I would just say 'good for you' that you have found the thing that works for you.

I hope you find what you are looking for here, it's a great site with a hell of a lot of resources and great people.