I wonder if Tojo would take away what he had with Katie in order to avoid the heartache? Probably not. (hope i'm not making any unwarranted assumptions here...)
I'd do it again tomorrow cookiecat- & I will too if I get the chance. I've told her to take her time & I'll wait til the end of the year.

Don't anyone ever think twice because you might get hurt- losing a love is painful, but never having one is a heck of a lot worse.

You don't get many chances in life- I'm going to be 47 years old in less than two months. I've had two chances in all that time, I married one 15 years ago, & I'm waiting for another to make her mind up.

Don't hold back & don't settle for less than the very best.


Tojo