On-line Aftercare

[claire]

I did some rather painful things for my Master a while back. We are only on-line so I do it to myself then send photos. I definitely felt the need for something afterward. So those of you who do on-line, how and what do you do as after care?

[Hime]

When I do online with my girl, I try to either call or stick around on the computer for a while afterward to make sure that she's okay emotionally and feeling loved. I haven't really done online as a submissive, but I think I would probably want to have a cup of tea and snuggle with one of my stuffed animals* afterwards, and take care of any spots that might need ice or heat or band-aids.

* so glad my sub isn't reading this.

[Warbaby1943]

Be there while it is happening hopefully with voice chat as a minimum and a video cam is always a bonus.

[cadence]

What we do is mostly online, and I do most of it on my own, by myself.
While I would love to have some comfort after, I have since learned to bask in the glory and bring myself down on my own. I relax and do something good, sometimes a nice hot bath.

As long as I keep my brain and body functioning properly, I am good.

I do look forward to praise later on and that is what I remember for the next time. The knowing he will be happy with what I have done for him.

[Ozme52]

Perhaps that's why I am not particularly rough online. I work more on control issues, my tasks are about completion and some emotional (read: embarrassing) difficulty and not physical difficulty, (unless you believe orgasms are painful.)

My rewards come later, when we meet, and all that conditioning and training comes to fuition.

So you might say I'm light on aftercare online, but I haven't heard too many complaints.

[Silus]

It does not exist...thats my MHO....the comforting and encouragement needed just cant be done over a long distance....once again, thats just my opinion.