Overpowering, submission, and safety

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You either compel him to submit, or he doesn't. This is physically as well as mentally. Did he say overpower him physically or mentally? Physically you're going to need an edge, as lucy suggested. Martial Arts, and wrist locks are the first thing to come to mind. Mentally, you just need to know his mind, and then know how to compel him to do your will.

[maryrobyn]

You either compel him to submit, or he doesn't. This is physically as well as mentally. Did he say overpower him physically or mentally? Physically you're going to need an edge, as lucy suggested. Martial Arts, and wrist locks are the first thing to come to mind. Mentally, you just need to know his mind, and then know how to compel him to do your will.

Could it be since he brought it up that he wants to be overpowered & will only put up a token resistance? The first time you go for a tender area & inflict a little pain he will surrender & be yours totally?
I saw this once where a woman made a big deal of not submitting no matter what the torture inflicted on her. So 2 of us women took her for a session & after just a few minutes of pain she surrendered completely & is a great submisive now. She only wanted to be made to accept her place & felt if she resisted a bit before she gave in then she could tell herself that she had tried to hold out but had to give in eventually. Maybe yours has the same attitude?